Everything is out there waiting for you. All you have to do is walk up and declare yourself in. No need for permission. You just need courage to say, "Include me". Providing you have the energy to pull it off you can do what you like. And the Universal Law, being impartial, will be only too delighted to deliver.
Life was never meant to be a struggle just a gentle progression from one point to another, much like walking through a valley on a sunny day.
Power comes from understanding that wherever others are is where they need to be, and whatever they are doing is for their highest growth, and you should not judge it.
Totally accepting others reality invigorates your own progress, because judgement holds you back to the baser physical levels.
The Universe Law is impartial. It will give you anything you believe. It will throw you garbage or roses depending on the energy you put in. You are the one in charge, and you must accept that and stand alone. If you think God is coming down to fix things for you, forget it. God is out playing golf